Law of the Lid

I’m really stuck on Maxwell’s “Law of the Lid” right now. Basically, it says that leaders are the lid that their teams (followers) can’t surpass. If you’re a 7, those who follow you will be 6s or below. If they’re 8s, they’ll become the leader or find a 9 to follow. [...]

The Dreaded “DTR” – Volunteers

Whether you’re volunteering for a professional society like ASTD or a church, you’ve got to know ahead of time what you’re committing to, you’ve got to have a DTR (define the relationship) talk. Are you going steady (are you completely dedicated and volunteering for one organization), or do you have to split your time [...]

Leading Relationally

I think it’s Maxwell who has a classification for leaders… regardless, someone has one and they are relational leaders. I’m definitely one of those. Honestly, I don’t understand how leadership works without being relational. I believe that out my belly are to come streams of living water – and I’m supposed to [...]

Professional Societies (Pt. 2)

So why should this matter to church folks? The walls of denominations kept us apart for many years. I don’t know about your location, but the area we grew up in, the pastors didn’t speak to each other except for the annual community-wide church service and some of the denominations would smile to [...]

Winds of Change

I’m/We’re in the middle of some major transitions that will dramatically increase the number of posts to the blog:
1. With the beginning of 2009, I’m taking up a brand new position on the board of the local chapter of the American Society of Training and Development. For some of my readers from church, I’m [...]

Dealing with Confrontation in the Workplace

Had an interesting lunch with some friends today who have some issues they want to address in their workplace. Here was my simple advice to them that I thought was worth capturing for the next time I’m upset about something and need to remind myself:
1. Ask questions – Don’t tell your boss or co-worker [...]

Question Behind the Question

Had a chance to listen to a book on CD on my way home from Arkansas. It’s a book by John Miller about Personal Accountability.
Basic Concepts:
*People place blame on everyone else for their problems – it’s part of our culture.
*People place blame with the questions they ask.
-Why did you [...]

Titles

Thanks Fred, for your comment on my last post – it raised another thought inside of me.
I started on staff at a church when I was 19, and make no mistake – I wanted to be called “Pastor.” I think I lusted for titles more than anything else in the world. If I [...]

Personal Mission

I’m working to really define on paper what my goals are and what my mission is. Where there is no vision, the people will perish. I always want to see churches and people find their purpose, but I would never write down my own. As I’ve been working to form this over [...]

Position for Promotion

As time passes, it seems like our purpose for being at Oasis in this season becomes more clear. Pastor Danny has asked us to take on some things we’re absolutely passionate about. I’m not sure what it will look like in 6 months – but I know it’s all about one thing – [...]